Adverb / Conjunction A2 — Elementary /ˈrɑːðə/

Rather — Definition, Examples & Usage

Preference, degree, and polite correction — one small word with many important jobs.

Quick Definition

Rather is used to express preference (would rather), to indicate a moderate or notable degree (rather difficult), to mean "instead" or "more precisely" (or rather), or to introduce a correction or contrast. It is especially common in British English.

What Does Rather Mean?

Rather comes from Old English hrathor, the comparative of hrathe meaning "quickly" or "soon". In Old English it meant "sooner" in a temporal sense, which is why the preference meaning ("I would sooner do X") is still its core. Over time the word expanded into a general degree adverb and a conjunction-like connector used to refine or correct.

In modern British English, rather performs four main functions. First, as a degree adverb it softens or moderates an adjective or adverb: rather cold, rather well. Second, in the phrase would rather it signals preference: I’d rather walk than drive. Third, as a connector (or rather, rather than) it introduces a more precise or contrasting alternative. Fourth, in informal British English it can be used as a one-word enthusiastic agreement: "Shall we get coffee?" — "Rather!" (old-fashioned but still recognised).

Learners often confuse rather with quite and fairly. In British English, rather can imply a slightly surprising or notable degree — more emphatic than fairly and more critical in tone than quite. Saying something is rather expensive carries a mild negative nuance, whereas quite good is simply neutral praise.

Five Example Sentences

SentenceLevel & usage note
I would rather have tea than coffee, please.A2 — would rather + bare infinitive (preference)
The film was rather long, but I enjoyed it in the end.B1 — degree adverb before adjective
She decided to cycle to work rather than take the train.B1 — rather than + bare infinitive (contrast)
The passage was rather complex, but she understood the main argument.B2 — degree adverb implying mild critical nuance
The report reflects a shift in policy, or rather a fundamental rethinking of priorities.C1 — or rather as a corrective connector in formal writing

Collocations

CollocationExample
would ratherI would rather stay in tonight.
rather thanUse a pen rather than a pencil for the exam.
or ratherHe arrived on time, or rather a few minutes early.
rather tooThe explanation was rather too brief to be helpful.
rather a lotShe travels rather a lot for work.
rather wellHe plays the guitar rather well for a beginner.
rather more / lessThe task took rather more time than expected.
rather likeThe flavour is rather like a mild cheddar.
rather difficult / complexThe question was rather difficult to answer clearly.
rather goodThat was a rather good idea, actually.

Usage Notes

Key Points for Learners

Degree adverb: Rather is stronger than fairly and often implies mild surprise or a critical note. Fairly cold is neutral; rather cold hints that the coldness is somewhat unexpected or worth noting.

Would rather + bare infinitive: Never use to after would rather. Say I’d rather go (not I’d rather to go). When the preference involves a different subject, use a past-tense clause: I’d rather you came tomorrow.

Rather than: Can be followed by a bare infinitive, a noun, or a gerund, depending on the structure of the sentence. Both rather than walk and rather than walking are acceptable, though the bare infinitive is preferred in formal English.

British vs American English: As a degree adverb, rather is considerably more common in British English. American speakers tend to prefer pretty or fairly in similar contexts.

Common Mistakes

Watch Out For

I would rather to stay at home tonight.

I would rather stay at home tonight. (would rather + bare infinitive — no 'to')

She would rather that he will call tomorrow.

She would rather that he called tomorrow. (use past tense after 'would rather that')

He chose to email instead rather than to reply in person.

He chose to email rather than reply in person. (bare infinitive after 'rather than' in parallel structure)

Etymology

Old English hrathor (comparative of hrathe, “soon, quickly”) → Middle English rather (sooner, more willingly) → Modern English rather (preference, degree, correction). The temporal sense ("sooner") is now mostly lost in everyday speech, but it survives clearly in the phrase would rather, which originally meant "would sooner".

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Frequently Asked Questions about “rather”

What does rather mean in English?
Rather has several meanings depending on context. As a degree adverb it means 'to a moderate or noticeable extent' (e.g. 'It was rather cold'). In 'would rather' it expresses preference. As a conjunction or connector it can mean 'instead' or 'more precisely', as in 'I would go to Paris, or rather, I would like to go there.'
What is the difference between rather and quite?
Both rather and quite are degree adverbs, but they differ in tone and strength. Quite often means 'fairly' or 'somewhat', while rather often suggests a stronger or slightly unexpected degree. In British English, rather can carry a mildly critical or surprised tone: 'That was rather rude.' Quite is more neutral.
How do you use 'would rather'?
'Would rather' is used to express preference. It is followed by a bare infinitive (without 'to'): 'I would rather stay at home.' When the preference involves another subject, use a past-tense clause: 'I would rather you didn't call after 10 pm.' The contracted form 'd rather is very common in speech.
What is the difference between 'rather than' and 'instead of'?
Both express preference for one option over another, but their grammar differs. 'Rather than' is more formal and is typically followed by a bare infinitive or a noun: 'She chose to walk rather than take the bus.' 'Instead of' is slightly more informal and is always followed by a noun or gerund: 'She walked instead of taking the bus.'
Is rather formal or informal?
Rather sits in the middle register. As a degree adverb meaning 'somewhat', it is associated with British English and can sound slightly formal or old-fashioned in some contexts. 'Would rather' for preference is perfectly natural in everyday speech. In academic or professional writing, 'or rather' is a useful way to correct or clarify a previous statement.
Can rather be used as a conjunction?
Yes. 'Or rather' is used as a conjunction to introduce a correction or more precise restatement: 'The meeting was postponed, or rather cancelled altogether.' 'Rather than' also functions as a conjunction or preposition linking two contrasting ideas.
What are common collocations with rather?
Common collocations include: would rather, rather than, or rather, rather too, rather a lot, rather like, rather well, rather more, rather less, and rather difficult. In British English, 'rather good' and 'rather clever' are frequently used to give mild praise with a hint of understatement.
What is the origin of the word rather?
Rather comes from Old English 'hrathor', the comparative form of 'hrathe' meaning 'quickly' or 'soon'. It is related to Old Norse 'hradr' (swift). Over time it shifted from a temporal meaning ('sooner') to a sense of preference ('more willingly') and then to a degree sense ('to a noticeable extent'). The preference meaning survives clearly in 'would rather'.
How do you pronounce rather in British English?
In standard British English (Received Pronunciation), rather is pronounced /ˈrɑːðə/, with a long 'ah' vowel and a schwa at the end. In many American accents it is /ˈræðər/, with a shorter 'a' vowel. The British pronunciation is the one taught in most ESL courses in the UK.
How can I practise using rather in English?
Try LexFizz's Complete the Sentence exercise to see rather used in context across different structures ('would rather', 'rather than', degree adverb). The Flash Cards tool is useful for testing the distinction between rather, quite, and fairly. Writing short comparative sentences — 'I would rather X than Y' — is one of the most effective ways to consolidate this word.